You be you and I’ll be me, and together we are free. I have always been supportive of my partners. As a couple and as individuals. You have to grow and be understanding of the many processes, that life gives you.
If you want to go out, good, go, have fun. You want to change jobs, go to the gym, go to a different state. Good, go, have fun. You want alone time. Fine. Do whatever it is that makes you happy, within’ means of not intentionally disrespecting me or our relationship and I will be here, happily waiting for you. But let me have it as well. How hard is it to do that. It isn’t. But that’s what I NEED.
We often times confuse our needs and wants, and they begin to intertwine, creating a unbalance between the 2 people. Always know the difference so that you know if what the other person is bringing to the table, is a deal breaker for you or not. You cannot change a person. Nor should you ever want to, regardless if you are in a relationship with them or not.
You should always want what’s best, appreciate what they give/offer, be their number one supporter and absolutely love and accept, every aspect of their being. And if you don’t, move on. They aren’t your person/people. Quit wasting everyones time.
I have been giving myself to the wrong partners, and I know at some point, the right person, my person, who gets me, understands me and talks my language, will come into my life. I don’t want to change a single person I have in my life, ever. There are things I don’t like or agree with, but that’s what makes them unique and loveable. And if it’s to much for me, and is toxic, I just close the door to myself and they aren’t allowed in. Know yourself. Your wants, your needs and communicate them openly, when needed.
Inspirelations 